Archive for April, 2007

What I love

April 28, 2007

saw it here first
now mine:

What I love about my man

I love that he never gets morning breath
I love that he likes to snuggle in bed
I love the smell of his neck
and his shirt at the end of the day
I love that he tickles his daughters but not me
I love that he believes I am beautiful
and never forgets to say it out loud
I love his edgy humor and how amused he is when I have trouble reading him
I love the way he turns on the shower long before he gets in
I love his taste in clothes – for himself and me
I love his undershirt peeking out of the neckline of his button-down
I love his breath on my neck
and his hand on my back
I love his beard
I love his brute strength
and his gentle spirit
I love his turns of phrase and his talent for speaking off the cuff
I love that he does dishes
and diapers
and doesn’t understand why it makes him a hero
I love that he built us a house with his own two hands
I love that he he is proud of me
I love the variation in his music
I love him for teaching me to listen to the lyrics
I love his straight teeth, and that our children got his teeth rather than mine
I love his inability to remember which toothbrush is his
I love his spicy mustards
I love his hunger to understand history
I love his willingness to learn whatever life requires of him
I love his courage when he has to do something he dislikes
I love his willingness to apologize, even when I probably started it
I love that we will grow old gracefully together
and that he wants me never to dye my hair
I love his passion for his family, his life, his Lord.
I love him.

Kid Comedy

April 27, 2007

Were your kids funny this week? Mine were much too wiped out from last week, so we’re running a little low on laughter. Please, share your laughs with us!
When you add your link below, please remember to link to your specific post rather than to the front page of your blog. That way we can still find your post after you have added new ones.
Thanks for playing along. I’ll be commanding my kids to be funnier next week so y’all won’t always have to pick up the slack for us.

Baby boy updates

April 25, 2007

Our little man made 3 exciting discoveries yesterday:

  • He can now scoot about rather efficiently on his bottom, getting from room to room in an upright sitting position. This works nicely with his talent for spinning.
  • He can pull himself to his feet.
  • He…well…he leaned over his fat little belly in the bath tub and saw something for the first time. Something of his. I could tell by the look he gave me that he thought it was a really cool and hilarious appendage.

Photo SharingUpload VideoVideo SharingShare PhotosHis vocabulary consists of his own versions of Dad, Mom, dog, kitty, an occasional appropriate poo and yuck, and something that sounds like boo. I’ll leave that to your imagination, but I know exactly what it means.
He also sings Gaaaahhhhh during the doxology at church (as in, Praise Gaaaahhhhhd from whom all blessings flow) and Aaaaahhhhhhh during the Gloria Patri (as in, Aaaaahhhhmen)
Notice his emphatic clapping each time he stops scooting. I’m dangling a plain leftover pancake in front of him, and he is responding with his version of sign language for “please.” My daughter thought I might be able to pass the treat off as a cookie, but I don’t want to be a phony. I ate all the cookies myself. I’m real like that.

Timing, tact, and a call to repentance

April 24, 2007

My line about making sad eyes at each other has been quoted more than once. Here is a more complete context of the line:

“Don’t go to these links expecting to read soft words of sorrow and sympathy. We all mourn the victims and the wickedness that was done, but standing about making sad eyes at one another won’t do a bit of good.
Our nation has so much to repent for…”

I will admit that I was a little ambiguous – I meant to say (and thought I said) that just making sad eyes wouldn’t help.
In the past during times of tragedy, Americans (and Christians throughout history) have always responded by examining themselves to determine whether the tragedy is likely to be a sign of God’s displeasure.

In his commentary on Luke 13:1-5, Matthew Henry says,
“…He [Christ] cautioned his hearers not to blame great sufferers, as if they were therefore to be accounted great sinners. As no place or employment can secure from the stroke of death, we should consider the sudden removals of others as warnings to ourselves. On these accounts Christ founded a call to repentance. The same Jesus that bids us repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand, bids us repent, for otherwise we shall perish.”

This reaction is not unique to Christians – it is in human nature to ask, “Why?” when such things happen.
Of course we can’t know the mind of God, but we can expect things to go badly when we are not living in obedience to Him, both as individuals (Pr. 10:24, 12:21, and as a nation (Pr. 11:11, Deut. 28:15-68). And if we have reason to believe that we are under judgment, we want to repent quickly, not wait for the grief to subside and new tragedy to fall before we broach the subject.
When is a better time to preach repentance to society at large: when the economy is strong and crime is decreasing, there’s a chicken in every pot and 2 cars in every garage? Or when we’ve been stricken by terrorists, epidemics, hurricanes and drug wars?

This does not mean that you step up to the grieving survivors of a fatal car wreck and tell them it’s all their fault. Few would be offended at being warned to drive more carefully after a horrific car wreck makes the headlines, but the grieving family would be very likely to take offense. There are different roles to be played, depending upon time, place, circumstances and other factors.

Jesus wept with Lazarus’s sister Mary. He showed compassion to those who were suffering. But when He was told in Luke 13 about the Galileans whose blood Herod mingled with their sacrifices, His immediate response was assurance that those who died were no worse than the rest and a call to national repentance.

I know and love Mr. Phillips as a Christian brother, and I think that the Vision Forum email newsletter on Virginia Tech was right on, but my point here is not to defend him. It is to rebut the claim that people should not address an important subject when it is immediately relevant because someone, somewhere, might misunderstand or find it hurtful.
Some topics are going to offend. So does the Gospel, as another reader commented.

When the Babylonians were carrying the Israelite captives away, do you think the people really wanted to hear Jeremiah and Isaiah blame it on their own idolatry? When God struck down thousands of Israelites in the wilderness, did Moses first come hug them and then much later, when their grief had softened, gently mention that they might want to consider how God felt about their complaining?

God brings disaster upon nations that disobey:

Isaiah 45:7 I form light and create darkness, I make well-being and create calamity, I am the LORD, who does all these things.

Amos 3:6 Is a trumpet blown in a city, and the people are not afraid? Does disaster come to a city, unless the LORD has done it?

Job 2:10 …Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?…

Our nation is in disobedience:
Abortion isn’t just in existence, but it is also nationally SANCTIONED. There were always Israelites who were going to be wicked (thus God’s commands in Deut 13 on how to deal with them) but it was when there was a NATIONAL idolatry as in the time of Ahab or Solomon that God moved against his whole people in judgement.

The public school system is corrupt at its very core. Yes, I know a lot of people will be offended to hear me say this but I strongly believe that the system cannot be redeemed. It is funded by theft and founded in the tenets of marxism and humanism. That’s a whole other discussion, but if you doubt it just let me encourage you to read up on the founders of the public school system. But quickly now, ask yourself: would you send your children to a muslim school? What if some of the teachers were professing Christians, but still taught the Q’ran and the tenets of Islam as required? Would you want your Christian children to be immersed in those teachings for most of their waking hours, 5 days/week from the age of 5 or less? Yes, your child might be a Christian when he graduates, but have you done your very best to disciple him, to raise him up in the fear and admonition of the Lord?
Maybe you disagree on this point. I know many Christians do. We’ll just have to agree to disagree, and I’ll reopen that cans of worms another day.

Many of our most popular books, movies and popular music lyrics are morally repulsive (Ps. 101:3).

Never before in the history of Western Civilization has homosexuality gained such widespread acceptance.

Yes, our nation is in sin. We need to repent.

Christian leaders and pastors have a duty to respond during times like this. This response can take many legitimate forms. A call to repentance is one.

Pro 14:34 Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.

Botkin girls’ workshop for young ladies

April 21, 2007

I’m in the Vision Forum warehouse, near the back row (oh, how I love wireless internet!) looking out over a small sea of heads. Some of them belong to my own children in the row ahead of me, but many are strangers who have come to listen and learn from these wise young ladies, the authors of So Much More.
Anna Sophia and Elizabeth have much to say about how girls and single young ladies can prepare for marriage by supporting and strengthening the household as they learn to help their father and aid their mother in her role as a helpmeet.
They provide very practical answers to questions about what a daughter can and should do to serve her family.
hmmm. I guess I’d better make sure my daughters are listening…

added notes:

In speaking about the tools that their parents have provided to aid them, Anna Sophia listed musical intruments, a family media business, and an enormous family library (“We have learned from history that great families always have great libraries.”). But the most important tool: the dining room table.

From Elizabeth: Man was created first, and woman was created for man. Femininity which puts self-interest first is not true femininity – it is feminism. Daughters who stay home only because they “like this way of life” are doing so from the wrong motivation.

The object of education for daughters is twofold: to equip us to be helpers and mothers. There is far more to being a helper than just cleaning a house (read Proverbs 31).
Theology/worldview
Writing and communication
History

The purpose of Christian education is not academic. It is religious and practical (R. J. Rushdoony).

Elizabeth also talked a bit about how girls can encourage their brothers to act as manly young men: never make fun of them for being manly, even (or esp.) when they are very young. Let them carry items for you, with your thanks – even if you don’t need the help.

I am thankful for this reminder! This applies outside the family as well. I can encourage manly behavior by letting the clerk at the store help with my bags; by waiting for the elderly man at the bank who wants to get the door for me even though I could do it more easily myself; by asking a little boy at church to get the door for me. All done with a sweet smile and sincere thanks, of course!

My question to Mr. Botkin:

Are there any marked differences in the way you educate your boys vs. girls?

Answer:
When they are younger, the education of boys and girls is much the same so that girls can grow into wives who are able to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with their husbands, helping, supporting and praying for them.
As they get older, we strive to train sons as leaders and risk-takers in business, to deal w/institutions around them, to become dominion-takers…

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By the way, I noticed earlier that visitors today can buy the History of the World or Entrepreneurial Bootcamp conferences for just $25 each in mp3 format. Both are amazing!

Vision Forum Open House LIVE

April 21, 2007


After a fast and furious morning, I’m finally here and planted at my favorite place, right in front of the warm friendly glow of a computer. I ate my Breakfast of Lactating Supermoms in the car: a 24 oz. homemade frappuccino and a ziplock baggie of almonds and chocolate chips. That’s all 4 basic food groups: Dairy, protein, coffee, and chocolate. Since coffee and chocolate both come from beans, maybe I should count them as fruits/vegetables?
All around me are smiling crowds, shuffling through treasures untold on two long rows of tables. Hubby just snapped a photo of Kelly Bradrick (glowing in her 3rd trimester) and Sarah Wean (glowing with her babe in arms) at the book signing table.
Phillips daughters in adorable matching aprons are cheerfully hawking baked goods and caffeinated goodies, and boys are talking about swords and dinosaur bones.
Everywhere is the squeak of balloons being twisted into comically shaped animals, hats and swords.
Oh, and there’s a whole table of beautiful reconditioned Dolls for $44. Now who’s coming?

Kid Comedy

April 20, 2007

Last week’s Kid Comedy had 20 links – what a great response!
This week the mood is a bit more somber. Our nation is mourning the loss of 32 lives this week. Each victim and the shooter himself was somebody’s daughter or son. In light of this, let us remember to thank God for each precious day with our own children.
What have your children done to bring a smile to your face and words of thanks to your lips?

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We were sitting around the table late this evening, chatting and getting ready to start family worship, when the 2yo looked up in sudden realization.
“Mom, we didn’t do pushups!” She slid down from her chair, dropped, and gave us 8. That’s as far as she could count.
Hubby looked rather interested and moderately impressed. He turned to me. “Have you been doing pushups?”
Um, no. But now I am.

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The problem of evil and Viriginia Tech

April 19, 2007

read HomemakerAng’s comment on a previous post here.

My reply:
God brings judgment upon the nations in many forms. One way is in the depravity of the people.

Psa 81:11-12 “But my people did not listen to my voice; Israel would not submit to me. So I gave them over to their stubborn hearts, to follow their own counsel.

That doesn’t mean that each individual who suffers during such times is under special, particular judgment from God. Rather, God’s judgment upon the nation as a whole brings suffering to individuals.

Luk 13:1-5 There were some present at that very time who told him about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mingled with their sacrifices. And he answered them, “Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans, because they suffered in this way?
No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish. Or those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them: do you think that they were worse offenders than all the others who lived in Jerusalem? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.”

Do you still doubt that God brings catastrophes? He flooded the earth, destroying all of mankind except for Noah and his family. He hardened the heart of Pharaoh and brought plagues upon the Egyptians. He gave the Canaanites over to the Hebrews because of their wickedness. He brought terrible judgment upon the Israelites and their children in the form of famine, pestilence and conquering by brutal empires.

We know from the Scriptures that God deals with nations by bringing judgment upon them. Why not us?

Amo 3:6 Is a trumpet blown in a city, and the people are not afraid? Does disaster come to a city, unless the LORD has done it?

Like us, Satan is a mere creature, created by God. He is not the equal and opposite of God, Ultimate Evil, engaged in an eons-long battle to rule all of creation – though he might like us to think so. He is a fallen angel, a rebellious servant of the Most High, doomed for all eternity.

2Pe 2:4 For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but cast them into hell and committed them to chains of gloomy darkness to be kept until the judgment…

Can you really make a case from Scripture that Satan, a creature, can act outside of God’s sovereign will? Don’t you at least believe that God could stop terrorists and shooters if He chose? So how can you say that “Satan won”? Wasn’t God standing by passively with the power and authority to intercede?
In Job’s case, we see Satan wheedling very specific permissions from God. God Himself takes responsibility for Job’s trials, having granted Satan permission to bring those trials upon Job.

Job 2:3-6 And the LORD said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil? He still holds fast his integrity, although you incited me against him to destroy him without reason.”
Then Satan answered the LORD and said, “Skin for skin! All that a man has he will give for his life. But stretch out your hand and touch his bone and his flesh, and he will curse you to your face.”
And the LORD said to Satan, “Behold, he is in your hand; only spare his life.”

Now: why does God allow these things to happen to good people?
First of all, most Christians would agree that we are all sinners, deserving of death. Our every breath is a gift from God.
But why do Christians suffer? Why do non-murderers so often fall victim to terrorists and tornados? What good came of the death of martyrs throughout the history of the Church?

Sometimes it is hard for us to understand God’s plan. We can’t always predict the results of a particular event, especially if it breaks our hearts and makes us feel as if our world is falling apart. But even in the hard times, we know that God’s Word is true. We know that good for God’s people will come of these things.

Rom 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

HomemakerAng said, “Yes we deserve death and each breath is a gift but would you guys all agree to these same findings if, God forbid, you or I found our children dead at a homeschooling conference they were singing at or during our family worship service and that it was GOD that did this? I don’t think so.

We have lost a child to stillbirth and experienced other tragedies and acts of violence within our immediate and extended family. We have many Christian friends who have as well. We have never doubted that it was God’s will, and that it was all for God’s glory and our good. On the contrary, we found and continue to find great peace and joy in knowing this. Our sufferings are not meaningless; God has a plan and He is working it out throughout history in each of our lives.

Why was our little Sarah stillborn? We were privileged to experience God’s grace, peace and comfort firsthand. We were reminded of the sanctity of life and the incredible gift of each precious child, the frailty of life, and our own dependence upon our Heavenly Father for every breath.
Did she die because we were wicked? No, but she did die because we live in a sinful world.

What good came of the persecution of the Protestants, Presbyterians, and Huguenots persecuted? Dr. Morecraft and my own hubby have a theory on that.

What good came of the death of Christians in the Roman arenas? The heathen Romans saw the strength of the followers of Christ and they feared, giving glory to God. The Christians fled to avoid persecution, spreading the Gospel throughout the civilized world. You and I were blessed by their deaths.

We can’t claim to understand God’s plan entirely, but whether or not we see the good we know it’s there. God is good, and we are His.

Jer 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

read a follow-up post here

On Virginia Tech

April 18, 2007

I wasn’t going to post on the subject, but my young friend Cara has a few wise words that I really had to pass along for others to see. Please take 90 seconds and go read No Window Jumping.

Much longer but also well worth the time: Doug Phillips’ post On The Horror At Virginia Tech, along with readers’ comments that he received in response.

Don’t go to these links expecting to read soft words of sorrow and sympathy. We all mourn the victims and the wickedness that was done, but standing about making sad eyes at one another won’t do a bit of good.

Our nation has so much to repent for…

see a follow-up post here, and a third here.

As it is, I rejoice, not because you were grieved, but because you were grieved into repenting. For you felt a godly grief, so that you suffered no loss through us.
For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.

2 Corinthians 7:9-10

In other news today…

April 18, 2007

Carmon explains far better than I ever could why we don’t go to the library any more. We are so thankful for the library book sales that have allowed us to build a family library of books worth owning and reading so that we don’t have to go sort through tripe and filth.

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I finished plodding through Jeremiah and have started Lamentations. I am appalled at my own ignorance of the structure of the Bible and elated at what I am learning even when it takes me an hour of interruptions to get through 2 chapters.

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Mary shared a recipe that I will blame someday when I have to go on a diet. Her Chocolate fix looks like it creates more problems than it fixes. I’ll let you know in as soon as I make it and eat the entire pan myself.
Sorry, kids.